Societal constructs of monogamy and marriage have been rendered irrelevant, all because of the words love and attraction. And true to the word, love and attraction from a married woman can as be thrilling as any other kind of love. Like sweet blasphemy, men can barely fail to turn their attention to love and attraction from married women even when they know the dangers associated with it. However, with rare encounters especially for newbies in such setups, differentiating between friendliness and attraction from a married woman can be a daunting task. The following tips will help you on how to know if a married woman likes you more than a friend.
#1- She is Flirting with You
Flirting can be fun especially with your crush or a single, just to raise the sexual tension and possibly get something out of it all. However, it is something different having a married woman flirts with you. From an eye wink to whispering something in your ears in a stifling tone, these are signs that the woman likes you more than just a friend.
In most cases, these women can turn any type of conversation into a flirtation. Other flirting actions you can look out for other than cracking ‘dirty’ jokes include biting her lips, playing with her hair while looking at you sexily, and sharing naughty pics.
#2- You Catch her Gazing at You Often
Paying attention to someone and maintaining eye contact is one thing. It is another to have your eyes stuck on someone from time to time. If you catch a married woman stealing glances when you’re nearby then this might be a true sign that she likes you more than a friend.
It might not be a sign if she finds you a weirdo so accompany this sign with her facial expressions while she looks at you. If she shies away or smiles when you lock eye contact after catching her gaze at you, then this might be some chemistry building.
#3- She Finds Every Reason to Be Around You
Having a married woman enjoy your company is one thing. In some cases you might be the soul she feels quite comfortable around. She might also have a liking to your ideas maybe if you work in a group at any delegated task. However, it is something different when a married woman finds all possible reasons to be around you.
If she is skipping on important things on her to-do list or stuff that she might have chosen over you, then this signifies more than friendship. In most cases, a woman who is attracted to you will barely let you pass without making some attempt to have your attention or in some cases, even makes excuses about you being her perfect alibi, just to be around you!
#4- You Receive Her Texts or Calls at Odd Hours
Is the woman texting you at odd hours even at night and weekends like you are her bestie? Well, this might be yet another sign that she likes you more than just a friend. To the woman, she might be thinking that the two of you hold something special between each other.
Jeopardizing family matters and interrupting personal and family time just to have time on that call or chat might not be a problem for the woman. In most cases, she might not even get bothered by this, welcoming the idea of you doing the same without fearing even her husband.
#5- She Compliments You Often
It’s your new shirts today, and your pair of trousers tomorrow. Haircuts, to your cologne the next time, and the list is endless. A person who likes you deeply will never fail to notice even the slightest change in your wardrobe or body in general.
A married woman who offers you tons of compliments more than a girl who crushes over you downtown might just have given you a clear hint that she likes you. Not as a friend, but more than a friend. The compliments are to shower you with a caring gesture to make you feel appreciated and loved.
#6- Her Nurturing Instinct is All Over
Women are naturally wired to be nurturers and caregivers. Through this, their nurturing instinct kicks in whenever they harbor love and affection towards someone. A perfect example is having a married woman reprimanding you for bad eating habits and the next thing, she wishes to offer to come to cook for you or take you out at the best food joint in town.
Of course, a friend can do this! But it takes a married woman’s love and affection to do this for you frequently without feeling that she is overstretching herself. Hence, if you notice this pattern from a married woman, she might just have found a sidekick in you!
#7- She Acts Jealous When You Socialize with Other Ladies
Like a woman who owns your heart, the sight of another woman close to you will in most cases chock a married woman attracted to you. To such a woman, it feels like the other woman is out there making moves to win you over or rather snatch you off her even when she barely has initiated any substantive move for you.
She might even come to your desk if you are at work just to distract the whole conversation with the other woman to ensure she gets nowhere near your heart. If she is of an aggressive personality, she can get hostile towards the other women approaching you for whatever reason.
#8- She Tries Initiate Touch or Rather Physical Contact
With a physical touch, a million emotions are awoken in a man! Initiating intentional sexy physical contact is the quickest way to seduce a man. When a married woman adopts such touches, it might be a sign that she is one of the people who use physical touch as their love language.
However, you might need to keen on this to avoid misinterpreting it. Some people will just initiate physical contact while conversing with you to express friendliness. But frequent sexy physical contact can never be a sign of friendliness, especially from a married woman.
#9- She Keeps Telling You that She Misses You
Come on! A married woman who keeps on confessing about missing you leaves little doubt about her feelings for you. With some work pressure or a day without seeing or talking to you, she will be on your phone bursting with lots of ‘I miss you’ utterances saying she can’t wait to meet you.
Shouldn’t she be banking all this time with her family especially the husband and/or kids? Well, this is another sign that you are important to her and she sees you not as a friend but more than a friend.
#10- Shies Away Not From Sharing Her Sexual Fantasies
There is no way a married woman will swap sex stories especially her sexual fantasies if she has no feelings for you or it’s not a ‘truth or dare’ session where she is on the hot seat. Married women who wish to lay with you will ensure they add some erotic spice to every conversation to keep the sexual tension high and get you in the mood and interested in them.
She expects you to reciprocate this with closeness to her and to be specific, fulfill her mentioned fantasies. After all, why would a married woman share about how she wants to be handled in bed if she isn’t trying to tell you how you will do so when a chance emerges.
#11- She Wants to Know Deeper Details About Your Life
Knowing someone is receiving a key to their heart and closeness. A married woman who tries to know your life deeper asking how you spend time, with whom, and what you value, might be communicating volumes about what she feels about you. If she tries to do so, it means she truly wants you to see that she is trying to forge some meaningful connection with you.
And there are only two goals for this. One is to show how interested she is about all that matters to you as that close one. Two is to get you thinking that she is a better match for you for she can get to your heart!
With a couple of the above-mentioned signs, you can be sure that the subject married woman sees you not at the lenses of a friend. The next question to come to your mind is how to react to it all. If there are no good reasons not to get in an entanglement with her, then nothing can stop you- maybe your HR/boss or her husband. However, you might realize that getting involved with her calls for a number of risks and it might change the course of your interactions and probably your love life too. Hence if this feels too much to take in, ignore the signs, becoming less accessible, and if need be, address the behaviors directly making her know she makes you uncomfortable.