Are you wondering if the Taurus man in your life is genuinely into you or not? Taurus men are known to be loyal, dependable, and romantic. They are the kind of men who love to commit to a person and settle down but can be complicated and often give confusing signs that leave your head spinning. They can be hard to read since they tend to contradict their own emotions. Taurus men will do anything to keep them safe from getting emotionally damaged. Below are some of the signs that a Taurus man is using you.
How To Know if A Taurus Man is Using You
He does not make romantic plans
A Taurus man knows the importance of romance in a relationship. If he is into you, he does not waste a chance to show you how important you are, and there will be a sudden intense splurge of romance and passion. He will make sure to up the ante on romance. He will also organize thoughtful dates and special outings to spend quality time with you. If a Taurus man uses you, he will excuse himself from things that may make you feel special or honored. Moreover, a Taurus man who is not interested in you may be focused on himself so much that he does recognize that you need a little pampering.
They do not get jealous
Taurus men are jealous and possessive of a person they like. They can be overly protective and sometimes controlling. They like getting involved with major decisions and knowing what is going on. Apart from that, they do not have a problem bearing fists against a person that may be threatening his “territory.” If your Taurus man does not get jealous of the littlest things, he may be using you and not actually into you.
• Check for minor signs of jealousy. For example, if a Taurus man sees another guy checking you out, he will hold your hand or do an act to mark his territory. If he does not, you should probably move on.
Do not discuss personal matters with you
If your Taurus man does not talk about his personal life and does not ask you about yours, he’s probably not interested in you. Taurus men love stability; hence they will want to know a person they want on a deeper level. Most Taurus men do not clearly state their intentions towards you, and they might be looking to hook up with you. Nevertheless, suppose he tells you he is not looking for a relationship. In that case, you should not get utterly attached to him since he may dump you. If he avoids any personal questions you ask, he is not attracted to you, and his feelings do not go beyond the surface.
Talking to other people romantically or intimately
Taurus men are known for being susceptible to changes around them. They can still be stuck on their exes even after their relationship ends. They tend to look for a new partner for physical or emotional comfort. At the same time, they are still invested in their previous relationship. Some of the signs that he is still hung up on his ex are:
• Constantly talks about his previous partner. If you feel like you know everything there is to know about his previous relationship, he might not be over his ex.
• He may refuse to give you any hint of his past love life even when pressed. Not letting you in on his love life may mean that he could have unresolved feelings from the past.
• If he still keeps presents or sentimental items from his ex, it could mean that he is not over her.
A Taurus man is very artistic in what he thinks and feels. He has a very picky taste in things and loves to surround himself with what he wants. If he continuously points out your weaknesses, he is not into you but using you. He may be mean or indifferent to you since he does not have much confidence in you, and you do not mean anything to him. When he uses you, your flaws become annoying, and he will not keep quiet about them. On top of that, he will not appreciate any efforts you try to make.
• Please pay attention to his criticisms. He is using you if he keeps criticizing how you look every time you are together and picking out even the most minor details.
He only calls when he wants to hookup
A Taurus man can be physical, passionate, and even sultry since the planet Venus rules them. He likes taking things slow to enjoy everything to the fullest. If he rings you up as a booty call, the man is using you. He only wants to fulfill his sexual urges. What’s more, a Taurus man who is using you will be selfish in bed. He only cares about fulfilling his needs. Your desires are only secondary to him. He might cut you off and pop up later, wanting to have sex right away. If he does this, stop him right there and get yourself a man that cares!
He puts you on a schedule
A Taurus man is very loyal to his routine, and how much he shifts his way to see can determine if he is using you. He will come up with any excuse on why he missed that date or was not available when you needed him. You will be a secret in his life and be kept away from family and friends. If he does not talk about you when you are around people he cares about, you are just a short-term solution to him. If a Taurus man is into you, he will dedicate his time and energy to seeing you and be willing to shift his schedule.
• Ask yourself if you invited him on an unscheduled date, would he be willing to make it work, no matter how busy he is? If he is not, you are an arm candy to him.
• If he only invites to places near him, he may not be taking the relationship seriously.
• Consider how often he has gone out of his way to meet up with you and how often you see each other.
Asks for favors
Taurus men enjoy luxurious comfort in their lives. If you are someone who can give him what he wants, he will stick with you. He will ask for favors from you constantly. Be wary if he does return this favor with even a nice gesture. Taurus men are known to be responsible and love to take care of the people they love. A major red flag is when you give him gifts and nice things, and he does not reciprocate the acts. If he keeps making promises of returning the favors and breaks his word, you should move on from him since he is only using you.
Does not speak of a future with you
Avoiding speaking of a future with you is one of the most telling signs that he is not into you. Taurus men love stability and settling down. When he is into someone, family and marriage are not topics he would forget to bring up. He will want to make plans with you for the future. If he does not speak about building a home with you or dodges any questions about the future, he does not want a long-term relationship with you.
If a Taurus man leaves you doubting his every move, he is probably using you. He will drop off the face of the earth and come back when he is out of options. There will be no explanations on why he is ghosting you, and he will be reckless with your heart. He will make plans with you and flop on them later without an explanation. Taurus men may be poor when it comes to communication, but if you do not see any effort whatsoever in trying to stay in contact with you, he is there for a short time. If a Taurus man initially acts interested and cuts off communication later or starts ignoring your calls, he probably got what he wanted.
Does not gift you
Taurus guys show their love through actions. Giving thoughtful and personal gifts is one of the ways he shows that he cares about you. It does not matter if the gift is expensive since some of them are willing to give handmade gifts to their partners as a token of love. If he rarely gifts you, it may signify that he does not take you seriously. Furthermore, if you do not receive gifts from a Taurus on significant events like birthdays, you mean nothing to him. Taurus men can go as far as:
• Giving you a morning flower during a morning walk.
• Sending you gifts in the middle of the day while at work.
• Giving you gift packages while you are sick or on your period.
There are plenty of red flags to consider when dating a Taurus man. They make it pretty obvious when they like you. Taurus men can be pretty amazing and caring when interested in you. As much as you have feelings for him, do not linger around waiting for him to change. Taurus men show interest from the word go, and nothing will change if he does not do that from the start. Be wary if you see some of these signs in your Taurus man. He is using you!