You already have a man in your life who loves and treats you right, which is excellent! However, you should not relax in your relationships. Men are naturally adventures, and as a woman, you need to make sure that you work on your relationship to keep it thriving. Women have tremendous power when it comes to relationships, and believe me when I say it is pretty easy to make your man crazy about.
Here are some tips to guide you on how to make your boyfriend crazy about you.
Always compliment him
Every man appreciates and feels special whenever his girl or woman compliments him once in a while. You need to boost his ego and show him that he is the one and you are happy he is in your life. Complement him on his outfits if he wins a tender or gets a promotion. You can also compliment him on how great he is to you, and you appreciate how he treats you. Reassuring your man that he is a big part of you will make him want to be with you even more.
A passionate kiss or hug can go a long way in making your man relax and trust you. Men love women who are affectionate and are not afraid to show them affection at all times, even in public places. Don’t just wait for him to initiate a kiss or a warm hug. Kiss him whenever you want, rub his back, and give him random hugs. Showing affection to your boyfriend even in front of people assures him that he is your number one and attracted to him. In such cases, the feeling is mutual!
Do you have a routine whereby you only meet up for specific days of the week, or call him at a given time, let’s say during lunchtime and when you get home? You need to let your boyfriend know that you are always thinking about him and want to be with him. Therefore, call him as often as you can to check on him. You can contact him in the midmorning to know if he got to work well and how his day is going.
Sometimes pop into his house unexpectedly to visit him and to spend some quality time with him. If you don’t have a tight schedule from your work and don’t work far from him, you can invite him to lunch near his office. Men also love random visits and special treatment from their girls even without asking them. Don’t wait for your man to be the only one planning for your dates or vacations.
Motivate and inspire him
Everyone needs some motivation and inspiration in life most, especially from the people we love. No matter how your boyfriend shows that he is strong, rest assured that he also needs your support in what he does. Is he working on a project that is weighing him down? Well, how about you help him do it. If you know nothing about the project, be there to offer a helping hand when he needs it.
You need to show him that you will always be there for him regardless of the outcomes, and you are always ready to help him. If he is afraid to do things that you feel would help build him, be the first to encourage him to take up the risks. Another thing is that you should not blister your man in case of failures.
As much as men love women who need them to help around, nothing attracts a man than a confident woman. Confidence shows that you love yourself enough, and this will guide him in learning how to love you the way you want to be loved. You have to have self-esteem, so you don’t become a pushover, be a woman of standards and decisions.
Don’t always ask for his approval before doing something in your life. Build yourself with confidence and let him see how you are flourishing. With such a mindset, your man will genuinely find you as a woman to reckon with, and he will be proud to introduce you to his friends and even family.
First off, for relations to excel, there has to be honesty and openness from both parties. However, some women are not vulnerable enough to share with their boyfriends, especially when undergoing challenging issues. Knowing that this can make your relationship fail since your boyfriend feels he is not good enough to know your goods and bad. So, let him know what’s going in your life, whether personal, work, or even school.
Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable in front of him, especially if you face some life challenges. You may be surprised as to how much your boyfriend can help you overcome. Besides, being open with him about what you are going through makes him feel you trust him and believe in your relationship.
Notice his preference for you
Does your man like a particular perfume you wear, a dress that he saw you in, or likes your hair held in a specific style? All these nitty-gritty things can do wonders in making a man more attracted to you. For a man to notice some personal stuff and tell you he likes you shows he knows you and what you have. Although you will not always do these things to please him, at least once in a while, surprise him for a date while wearing that dress he likes. If he tells you to wear a particular shoe, cater to his needs.
Enjoy yourselves and have fun
Who does not want a partner who knows how to have fun and enjoy their company? As mentioned earlier, men are naturally adventurous. As a woman, you have to find the wild inner part of him and bring it out. So, whenever you are with your boyfriend, make sure you both have the time of your life. Do things that you both like, and that makes you happy. Enjoy each other’s company, and every moment should be like the last one. Your man will always want another moment with you if he enjoys your company and is happy.
Give him space
You don’t always need to be with your boyfriend from Monday to Monday. Give him some time to be by himself and even miss you, for that matter. Men love hanging out with their boys sometimes, where they discuss their things. He may also want some alone time to evaluate his life, something we all need.
So, even without asking for it, respect his boundaries and let him be alone or with other people. You need to show him that you respect his different life out of your relationship, and you trust him even when you are not together. A woman who admires a man’s personal space is to reckon and attractive.
Your life should not always revolve around your relationship. As much as you work hard for your relationship to grow, personal growth should be a priority. You need your boyfriend to be proud of you and appreciate the growth he sees in you. Therefore, work for yourself to accomplish your goals and dreams.
Your boyfriend should be proud to introduce you to his family or friends as a woman of substance and self-driven, a woman who has her career going on and focused on achieving great things in life. Such traits will automatically make your boyfriend crazy about you as he has what every man needs. Building yourself does not only entail business, career, or education; it also has to do with your well-being. Ensure to stay healthy, work out, work on your inner self, and even mental health.
To most men, women who have standards are sexy and attractive. You don’t have to believe in everything that your boyfriend says as it shows you are weak. Most men don’t like pushover women as it shows they are not strong enough to even build a life with. So, whenever he does something wrong to you, never swipe it under the carpet to avoid arguments. You need to stand firm and let him know what he did hurt you, respectfully. The more you ignore and let him treat you the way he wants, the more his respect for you will lower.
A kind woman who treats people well regardless of their age or status is attractive. Show kindness to people close to you and that you meet, and your man will admire you forever.
As a woman, you have the power to make a man go crazy for you with love and admiration. These are some of the tips you need to apply to ensure your man only sees and loves you. But note that loving and being loved should not cost you. It should be a natural and healthy relationship if at all both if you love each other. So, as you apply these tips, make sure that your boyfriend loves you as much as you love him.