I believe nothing hurts a woman other than being dumped by a man she wanted to build and spend the rest of her life with. Breakups can be draining and tough and are quite hard on women more. So, as a woman, the only revenge you can take on your ex-boyfriend is by upgrading your life.
I know making him regret leaving you is quite hard, especially if you still have feelings for him or he has a new girl in his life. However, don’t lose hope because it is still possible to get your ex to regret leaving a woman like you. Below are tips on how to make your ex-boyfriend regret breaking up with young.
By exploring, I mean going out and meeting new people. Relationships are quite hard to balance with social life. You may find yourselves going out less with other people when you are in a relationship. This is because you and your boyfriend need to spend more time together to cultivate your relationship as you get to know each other. But once the relationship is done, take that chance to go out and mingle.
You don’t necessarily need to go out to meet new men. Call your friends and ask them to go out with you. If you get invites to events or parties, don’t turn them down. You need to be around people who make you happy and forget about the sad situation you are going through. Although you may not get over your ex fast, going out helps you deal with the situation better. So, don’t lock yourself up in the house; revive the old life you had before you met your boyfriend so you can move on.
Post on social media
Social media plays a significant role in displaying how our lives are. As long you are not fake about how you live, let your ex-boyfriend know that your life is going on. For a fact, men don’t like their exes to move on fast or be happy, even if they are the ones who called off the relationship.
So, seeing your life blossoming and you being happy on social media will affect him in a way. The trick is not just posting pictures of you alone. Share pictures with other guys having fun or even traveling. Show him that you still have people in your life who make you happy and move on with your life.
Work on your physical appearance.
It is not only staying in shape good for your health, but it is also a great weapon you can use against your ex-boyfriend. It is called revenge body! At this time, workout and eat the healthiest diets to get you to the best and sexiest shape you have ever been. Research shows that most people, both women, and women, get too comfortable in relationships and gain weight. It could be due to the foods you eat with your partner or the happiness in your life.
But, if you have been living an unhealthy life, it is time to make a turn and work on your fitness. If you are fit you will be able to rock any clothes, which will boost your confidence and make you look bomb. Remember not to stress your body out trying to get fit fast. This is a process that takes place gradually, and our bodies respond differently. The trick is to adjust your lifestyle by eating healthy foods and working out as often. Let his jaw drop down the next time you meet and sees how sexy you look in your new body.
Change your wardrobe
It is time to upgrade your outfits to new designs and styles. If you and your boyfriend liked to wear jeans or sweat pants when going to get groceries or eat out, it is time you alter your mind to new styles. I am not saying you throw away your old clothes, No! All you need is to add more collections that enhance your beauty and body. Remember, as you lose excess weight, you will need smaller clothes that fit you. Buy clothes that accentuate your sexy new body and that enhance your natural beauty.
Have a hair makeover and learn how to wear makeup. Note that the goal of changing your style is not just to make your ex regret it, but you also need to move on and meet your better half. So, this can only happen if you look attractive to attract the right people to you. The bottom line is to make you look sexy, classy, and beautiful without losing yourself. So, never alter your looks at all.
Update your social media profiles
You are in the process of getting rid of your past, and this includes anything that has memories about your ex. Let your social media profiles also match your new beginnings and the new person you are. Post new pictures of yourself, with your dates, and even having fun with new friends.
Rest assured, this will kill your ex. He can’t stand seeing you with a new person or being so happy then maybe when you were with him. This may make him regret breaking up with you since he lost an opportunity to see another side of you that is more bright and happy.
Never ignore him
It may be hard for you even to want to look at your ex better. Yes, talk to him when you meet outdoors. But with time and when you begin to rediscover yourself, you will be more comfortable talking to him and having a conversation. So, the advice is never to cut your ex off completely out of your life. When you meet him, don’t ignore him; greet him and have a small normal conversation.
But, avoid revisiting your relationship or even why you broke up. If he brings up such conversation, avoid them nicely and tell him that was in the past and you have both moved on with your lives. Another trick is to avoid spending too much time with your ex. Make the conversations as simple as possible in case you meet out. Trust me; this works magic in making a man regret leaving you. Seeing you get up and leave him at the table kills him softly because it shows you no longer care or have feelings for him.
Reinvent your interests
One mistake that many people make to prevent them from moving on with their lives is by doing the things that remind them of the past. For example, if you loved bowling with your ex, it is time you try out something else that has no connection with him.
Trying out new things helps you to find a new interest and things that fulfill you. This goes on for all people, including introverts. This is not the time to lie on the sofa the entire day watching Netflix. Get dressed and bring out the adventurous side of you. Go out, meet new people and get to do other new activities.
Never get to rebound a relationship.
Even if your ex has moved on and is flaunting the new girl all over social media, never try to get into a new relationship as a way of moving on or coping with the pain. Once a relationship ends mainly a long-term one, the person left always has a huge void that requires love for fulfillment. However, you may find yourself getting more hurt by your rebounds that may completely damage you and your esteem.
You may also not give your all in the new relationship considering you are still hurting from the previous one. So instead, take the time to heal and rediscover yourself. This includes healing completely and forgetting about the ex-boyfriend. If it is a career, work on your career, upgrade your life and your whole being. Trust me to stand alone and rebuild your life after a breakup will make your ex admire you and regret leaving such a woman. This is called becoming the woman that you have always wanted to be.
Avoid your breakup topics.
It is good to share your predicaments so people can advise or empathize with you. But never talk too much about your ex, especially the negative things. Remember you have mutual friends who may ask you a few things about your ex-boyfriend. The chances of them telling your ex about what you are saying about him are too high.
So, make the conversations minimal and void any “gossiping” conversations that involve your ex. Don’t let them tell your ex how bitter or how sad you are for leaving you. Instead, show him you are doing okay and getting over the sad situation like a queen you are.
There you go! These are the top tips that you can use on your boyfriend for leaving you. The goal is not to get him back but for him to realize that he lost a gem. Work on yourself, grow your career, spiritual being, and ensure to find your happiness.
You should put yourself first to build the right energy around you. Keep in mind that people are attracted to positive energy, and if you work on yourself, you will eventually meet the right person, which is regret and a loss to your ex.
What do you think?