When you are in love, life seems beautiful and perfect. You think the world will be better because you found your soulmate. Your self-esteem skyrockets and everything in your life seems to work out.
Here are ways to know if he loves me.
He asks to see me every day.
When a guy truly loves you, he will show it. He will be truly committed to spending time with you. He will be genuinely concerned about how you are feeling and what you need. He will not be some guy that wants to hang out with his buddies in the evening while you are at work.
He texts me when I’m away.
If he calls or texts every few hours to check on you, then there’s a chance that he doesn’t really want to see YOU but only your phone number or email address. But if he constantly wants to know how your day and your week went, he cares about you!
He wants a relationship.
He calls, shows up and sends you flowers. And don’t think he’s just getting you a card or some candy. He cares about you enough to take the extra step to show that he is in love with you. That’s what a real man does for his woman – not some random internet stranger or woman he met at the club.
He asks me to marry him.
When guys are committed to their women, they are willing to make it permanent. They want more than anything to have them at their side for the rest of their lives, so they are willing to do whatever it takes to make every part of meeting her unique and memorable.
He wants to be with me no matter what
The man that truly loves you will always find a way to make it work with you. He will listen when you need him to, and he won’t leave your side when you are down or upset about something. But he will also step in and defend and protect you when someone else is trying to hurt you or treat you like trash.
The attraction is there.
If a guy likes you and wants to be with you long-term, there will be a spark and a particular attraction between you that others won’t understand. You’ll find yourself laughing for no apparent reason or staring at him in ways that make him uncomfortable. And just because he’s your boyfriend now doesn’t mean the passion has gone away. If he loves you, he’ll want to shower his love with more affection than ever!
He always wants to know where I am and who I’m with
When you are in love, some things are hard to hide from your partner. Even if you have secrets, the man that truly loves you will always be there to keep you protected.
He takes me to unique places.
When a guy is afraid to have his girl around someone else, he has a lot of respect for her, and his love for her is that strong! When he goes out on a date with you, it may not be to eat at “the most popular restaurant in town” but rather someplace that means something to him. It could be somewhere he went with one of his friends or relative. It shows how much he cares about you and has fun with the two of you together.
He doesn’t make me feel like I’m trying to be someone else.
If the man that truly loves you makes you feel like the woman you are, nothing will change that. He sees you as beautiful and unique and wants what’s best for you. There is no sense in trying to make yourself look prettier or wear clothes that don’t fit properly just because he says you need to do it or because it will make him happy.
He tries more challenges than others have
If a guy cares about a girl, he will try harder than anyone else has. He will spend time with her when other guys are out with their girls; he will call her to check in on her (or himself). He will make her feel like she’s the only girl in the world and that he always thinks about her.
He tries to be everything to me.
If you’re not so great at doing things for yourself, then it’s especially nice when someone tries to do those things for you – especially when he loves you! He will try to be everything you want him to be and more. This is a sign that he genuinely loves you and wants what’s best for you.
He cares about other people.
When you are in love, you will find yourself caring more about other people than you have in the past. He will care about your family and friends and make them feel important to you. He will always think of others before himself. In a relationship, when one person is always thinking about themselves, it’s not healthy for anyone but selfishness itself!
He makes me laugh. I don’t do it myself.
When a guy truly loves you, he will always try to make you laugh. It doesn’t matter if he succeeds or not – at least he tried! And even if he fails, at least he was trying
He doesn’t compare me to others.
When you’re in a relationship, and he truly loves you, he will not compare you to other women. He will appreciate the beauty within you and never try to make you feel less than you are. He may not always be “perfect,” but blaming him (or yourself) for the things that go wrong in a relationship will never solve anything. Instead of pointing the finger, why don’t we all learn from each other and get along?
He cares about my dreams and goals.
If a guy loves you, he’ll care about your future more than anything else. He wants to ensure you are set for life, and he will buy you things to make your dreams come true. It’s not that he wants to give you material possessions that can be used later in life – he wants to show you how much he cares about the person you are and what’s important to him.
He doesn’t pressure me.
If a guy loves you, he won’t pressure you into having sex just because it’s been a few weeks or months without sex. He will respect your decisions on when or if it is proper if the time comes that both of you would like it to be – not just in his eyes but also your own eyes!
He wants to have a family with me.
Gone are the days when you’re in a relationship, and he doesn’t want just a girl to be his girlfriend but you to be his wife and the mother of his children. When you know he truly loves you; he will want more than anything else to build a future with you. He will want you by his side for everything, including all of life’s big moments and celebrations.
He respects me
If a guy truly loves you, he will respect you and your decisions – even if he doesn’t agree with them or doesn’t understand why you would do some of the things you do. He will never make you feel less than who you are and what’s important to him in life.
He loves me through my flaws (big\small)
We are all human, and we all have flaws. Every time we look in the mirror and see something that’s not perfect, it can affect a person’s confidence. When a man truly loves you, he will love all of your flaws and imperfections. He’ll love you regardless of what they are, and they won’t change how he feels about you. If you are not confident with yourself or unsure of yourself, it can be challenging to be in a relationship with someone who also lacks confidence in themselves. If a man truly loves you, he will be more than happy to help support your insecurities and make you feel confident with yourself.
He listens to the things I have to say
A guy that truly loves you is a natural listener. He’s not so engrossed in his own life or thoughts that he can’t take the time to listen to what you have to say or what’s on your mind.
He understands my quirks and doesn’t force me to change them.
We all have little things about ourselves – maybe it’s our quirky personality traits or how we do certain things in our day-to-day life that makes us who we are. If a guy truly loves you, he will accept and understand the things that make you different from the rest of the world – what makes you unique. He will never try to make you change any of your quirks or habits.
He understands that I’m not perfect.
We are all human, and we all have our flaws! A guy that truly loves you is a man who knows this and accepts this about himself, especially regarding his relationship with you. A great sign of true love is a man who still sees beauty in his partner even after they’ve made mistakes or said something they wish they hadn’t.
He knows that I’m everything to him.
When he loves you and is in a relationship, he will know that you are the only one for him. He won’t need anyone else and will have no desire to have someone else in his life. He also knows what relationships can do to us; just because he’s had a few doesn’t mean he would want more than one – especially if it means losing you or holding back your happiness.
You will only know if the man you love truly loves you back by observing his actions, not just his words! If a guy is constantly putting on a show for you and trying to make sure that he acts a certain way in front of everyone else, but it’s not who he is when no one else is around, then that’s the sign that he doesn’t genuinely love you.