How do I know he likes me or not? This is a common question that many ladies ask, mainly when they are talking to a guy. It is pretty tricky for most women to approach a guy and confirm their feelings towards them. I mean, no woman would like to be turned down or get an answer that is not favorable. If there is a guy you are talking to and you genuinely want him, you can quickly know if he feels the same about you through texts. Yes, framing some tests in a way that can promptly help you know if a guy is into you or not. Here are a few questions to ask a guy to see if he likes you over text
• Have you sent an embarrassing message to anyone?
We don’t share our embarrassing moments with many people, especially someone we are not close to or free with. So, if the guy can open up and tell you about his embarrassing situations, it shows that he trusts you and is okay sharing some negative side of him. Even if he does not tell you the most embarrassing texts he sent, sharing even the least negative is a good start.
• What is your mantra?
Come on, we all have our mantra, something that keeps us grounded when we are down or want to express ourselves in different situations. Some people opt for songs; others prefer quotes or even listening to motivational speeches.
• If we were to go on a date, where would you like to take me?
This could be a tricky question, but hey, it is a good one to determine if the guy likes you or not quickly. The guy may be feeling you but afraid to tell you. So, asking him about a date with you helps him imagine you and him on a date. It also helps break the ice, and if he tells you about a nice place you would enjoy, know he likes you too.
• Who is your type of woman?
This is another great question that instantly helps you get the answer you are looking for. Every time a woman asks a man about their woman preference and the man likes the woman asking the question, the description of this ideal woman will suit her. For example, the guy may describe to you her physical appearance, maybe blue eyes, blonde hair, tall, some of the features you have. If he is open to you, he will straight up tell you he is looking for a woman just like you.
• Do you have a crush on a girl, and do I know her?
Another question to put him on the spot and know if he likes you or not. Everyone has a crush, and we are okay discussing them with people close to us. So, throwing this question to the guy will create a chance to tell you whether he likes you or not. If you are his crush, he will tell you straight up. If he tells you another girl, maybe your mutual friend, well, know that he has his eyes on someone else. Note that some guys may say to you they have a crush on some celebrities, which is something not to worry about considering that they can’t meet. But I would still insist that you ask the guy if he has a crush on a girl around your area.
• How many people are crushing on?
It is always good to know how many people you are silently competing with for the guy’s attention and affection. If he tells you you are the crush and give you more alert, well know you are safe and you could be the girl he wants in his life.
• What kind of relationship would you want?
This is an excellent question to ask the guy if you have started to flirt with each other. You need to be on the same page to avoid hurting one another if things hit on and you begin to date. Dating requires two people with the same goal of a relationship. If you are looking for a serious relationship, you will also suit a guy who needs a serious relationship. If you are into a casual relationship, the right compatible guy with you would be a guy who needs the same type of relationship. So, get clarity without asking the guy directly.
• When was your last relationship?
Do you want to see if the guy is seeing someone or not? Then throw this question to him. If you have known each other for a while or have constantly been talking, he will be in a relaxed state to tell you if he is still in a relationship or he is single and ready to mingle.
• How long did your last relationship last?
You can ask his question if you want to gauge the guy is looking for a rebound or a serious relationship. Someone who has been in a long-term relationship will not jump into a new one unless they need a rebound to help them move on. However, suppose the relationship did not last for long, and both parties felt they weren’t moving forward in a relationship. In that case, that is a guy you can have a good relationship with, especially if you have the qualities he needs from a woman.
• What qualities do you look for in a woman?
Qualities sum up the character of a person. They include honesty, loyalty, creativity, and many others. It is crucial to know the rates he needs from a woman as these could be the things he is looking for in his next woman.
• Do you believe in a happy ever after?
If you previously opened about wanting to have a long-lasting relationship that will lead to marriage with your future man, this question is appropriate to ask to make sure that the guy is on the same page with you. So, is he for keep or not? Pop this question through a text and wait for his answer. If he states that he is also looking for someone to spend the rest of his life with, he knows he is serious and on the same page.
• What would be your ideal first date?
This text sends him to the imagination of how he would want to spend the first date with the woman he is interested in. if he mentions romantic things and great places that you would love to visit, well, know he is throwing some hints of wanting a date with you in these places.
• What were you like as a kid?
Everyone has their outstanding fair share of childhood they would want to share with people close to them. Regardless, how it is was, somehow it helps us not to detach from our young selves when we share about our childhood. For such texts, you can share your childhood and how you grew up, the type of kids you were to see if you have similarities in your childhood.
• What is a deal-breaker on your date?
We all desire for our first dates to be perfect and end well to create a chance for second and more dates in the future. However, their things that your date may bring up during the date and end up not pleasing you. Once he states the things he would not want to discuss on the first date, jokingly text him that you would not discuss such things if he took you on a date. If he is not reading through your text, this message will give him a hint about your feelings towards him easily.
• What is the best compliment you have received so far?
Compliments naturally rub men’s ego, and if you give him often compliments, even on small things, well rest assured he will forever remember and appreciate that. So, you want to win him over by throwing the best compliments to him, know first who has complimented him best so far. It may also turn out that you are the one who gave him the best implement.
• Do you believe in soul mates?
Most couples who have been dating for long or have been married for long believe they are soul mates. Well, we all want a soul mate, someone we feel we cannot live without; we have many similarities and likeness. If you think this about the guy, you can ask him through a text to see if he believes in the same.
• Have you ever fallen in love with your best friend?
It is pretty easy to fall in love with our friends because they know us better, understand us better, are always there for us, and support us all the time. If you have been a great friend to the guy and have the qualities he is looking for, he will quickly open up and tell you yes. Some guys may take this as an opportunity to express their feelings to the woman.
These are simple and straightforward questions to ask a guy through text to know if he likes you or not. Guys will always take an opportunity thrown to them to express their feelings to the girls they like. So, if you notice he is not hesitant to reply and give positive answers, he could be crushing on you too.
What do you think?