Gemini’s are the twins of the zodiac, which means they have two personalities. Additionally, Gemini is an air sign which means they can be relatively flighty. When a Gemini man falls in love with you, consider a few things.
• Because of Gemini’s duality, it’s hard to say how long love is going to last.
• Gemini responds best to the freshness in relationships which means that if things get boring, he may rebel.
When you first meet a Gemini, you may think he is superficial. If you tend to only see things at a surface level, it won’t get very far. Gemini men aren’t the least bit simple; they just have too many emotions to handle what they feel. However, if you get beyond the surface, you will find someone who has a true zest for life and a personality that absolutely sparkles. Going back to his sign, the twins, Gemini, has many varied traits.
• He’s always up for an adventure and will surprise you will experiences you never thought you would enjoy.
• Typically, Gemini is one of the most positive signs with a heart filled with childlike wonder.
• His other side will come out when he feels like he is being set aside. Then, he will become unreliable and act like an errant child.
When he’s with someone, he needs life to be spontaneous. He thinks that if life isn’t a hundred and fifty percent, it’s boring. Yes, he will make you laugh, but being with that all the time can sometimes feel overwhelming. Gemini men also over-intellectualize sex. It’s not as much about the act but the heady rush of emotions that accompanies it. However, he needs someone who understands his needs and will challenge him without noting all his shortcomings. Additionally, if he’s in a long-term relationship, he will expect things to stay fresh. If they don’t, this can lead to a wandering eye.
After reading this, you may wonder if you can trust your Gemini partner. Yes, you can, but you will need something of a decoder because frequently, you will not know what he is actually talking about.
• He will have many sub conversations during meaningful conversations that make sense to him, but you may think he is avoiding the topic at hand.
• He can learn how to have more emotional depth, but it will take time and patience to help him overcome his mercurial attitude on life.
Much of this sounds like a hostile take on the Gemini man. Just remember, he doesn’t want to let his partner down when he is in a relationship. Even he doesn’t understand we he fluctuates so much in his emotions and how he can love so intently one day and be cold the next. When you start a relationship with a Gemini, you need to remember, he’s not one to act like a traditional guy you’ve dated. He doesn’t always make the first move but will most likely accept an invitation to go. If he begins to fall for you, he will definitely become more spontaneous, even to a fault. Over time, his spontaneity may make you want to take a breath. But, it’s best to think about what happens when you ignore a Gemini man.
So, you’ve started dating a Gemini, and everything seems to be going well. Yet, he stops calling, stops texting, and you have no idea what happened. You start asking yourself questions
• Did he disappear?
• Is he playing with you?
• Did you make a mistake?
Then, you begin to think that the best way to deal with the situation is to give Gemini a taste of his own medicine. The problem is that Gemini’s are not like other people. They march to the beat of their own drum and don’t think about how their actions affect others. So, ignoring him is only going to bring out more of his worst traits.
If you think you did nothing wrong, chances are you probably didn’t. Remember, this is a Gemini. There are several reasons he may feel justified about not returning your calls or contact.
• Work has been overwhelming, and he didn’t have the energy to pick up the phone.
• He went out of town and found many exciting things that he didn’t think to answer the call.
Gemini’s also don’t have a perfect handle on their feelings, so they may have felt slighted at something that was a simple statement. However, if you are already in a relationship with one, it’s best to address what’s going on. After all, they already believe that you have a better handle on their emotions than they do, probably true.
Hard to get
It may be a typical power move for you to play hard to get. After all, what man doesn’t like a chase. However, this will seem like a game to them. After all, air signs aren’t known as the most grounded in the zodiac. Instead of thinking they did something wrong, they may think it’s fun to evoke these types of emotions. If you continue to let him chase you, you may be the one to wind up with a broken heart.
A relationship with a Gemini is also tricky because one minute he will give you lots, and the next he won’t notice if you’re in the same room. It’s very tempting to give a taste of his own medicine. Alas, Gemini’s will never see it that way. In fact, if you ignore them, they may be grateful because they needed space and didn’t quite know how to ask for it. There are other ways he may decipher your coldness.
• The relationship is over, and you don’t want to tell him, so you are just ignoring him, hoping he’ll go away.
• If he’s gotten attached, he makes several feeble attempts to talk to you. But, if you keep your walls up. He will lose interest quickly.
Do you love him?
If you love a Gemini man, eventually, you’ll realize that anything you used to do in relationships won’t work this time around. It’s best to expect the unexpected and behave accordingly. Choosing to ignore him is a tactic most likely to blow up in your face and cause much more harm than good. You are probably hoping he will realize how awful life is without you, but unless he’s already come to that conclusion, anything you do will fall on deaf ears.
If you two had a fight, and you’re waiting for him to understand that the relationship can be fixed, go out and enjoy life. Post lots of cute selfies and enjoy the world around you. He’s a Gemini and curious by nature, so he will be looking at your feeds. Undoubtedly, sooner not later, he will call and apologize.
So, if the idea of ignoring a Gemini man won’t work, what will? Gemini’s like to talk, which seems strange since they can be highly closed off. Yet, the best way to communicate with them is to read their signs to the best of your ability. Additionally, you may try one of several different things.
• Take the opposite approach. Although you think you shouldn’t text a guy or call until he does, try it several times. Quite possibly, it will knock him out of his comfort zone.
• Don’t ask him if something you do is making him ignore you. Stick with Gemini traits and ask once, and then move on with the adventure you’re on.
If you don’t feel comfortable being a bit more like your Gemini counterpart, it may best to continue to live your own life, especially if you’ve tried several approaches. Gemini’s aren’t terrible people. They just hear a rhythm much different from other people’s.
If you breakthrough to the Gemini, the next time, you see him act confident. Even if you spent the last several days eating ice cream and wondering what you were thinking, don’t let on. Gemini’s really don’t mean to be like this, and even though they like to pout don’t understand it when other people do the same thing. Besides, if you’ve chosen to entirely ignore the Gemini and move on to another zodiac sign, it’s best not to let it weigh you down too much. After all, choosing to ignore a Gemini too long will be the end of the relationship anyway.
Dating Gemini’s is a fun adventure, and you’ll never be bored. However, sometimes it’s easy to try to play games better than they do, and the first thing that springs to mind is to start pulling back yourself. Only you can decide if you’re up for a Gemini relationship. Yet, it’s best to be yourself as much as you can and take risks and make a few of the first moves.
The one thing you should never do is ignore a Gemini since most likely it will not end well. They aren’t going to understand your tactic, only that you don’t like them. Remember, even though it may seem like Gemini’s emotions are only skin deep, their scales can get easily ruffled, much like the other fish in the zodiac, Pisces.