If you are unsure of what your man feels for you, try to check out if he is jealous of you in whatever you say or do. According to Kelly Georges, a relationship coach, jealous is quite toxic but a perfect tool to have your partner crave for you especially when love seems to have taken a ‘vacation’. However, overcoming jealous might be kept at the core of every jealousy obstacle to ensure the love thrives well and healthy. So, you wish to have your man crave for you better than any other time, then you can try to make him jealous. Below are tips on how to make your boyfriend jealous over text.
#1- Do Not Reply to His Texts Immediately
This here is some reverse psychology trick that requires you to do absolutely nothing with your phone. When texted by the guy, opt-in for some space between your responses usually hours. In this case, it means that you won’t be starting a conversation either. Even tougher for the guy, try going for a full day during a weekend without replying to his texts, then see how this charges up some jealous care in him.
In such scenarios, the guy ends up wondering where you might be, with whom, and doing what. Well, let him fight with his imaginative thinking for quite some while then release the long dial to jealousy by responding to him. While you may be tempted to respond to him during the silent moments, try not to. However, you might purpose responding to the guy with a warm heart reassuring him of your love for him.
#2- Mention Other Guys Casually
It doesn’t have to be that you met a certain guy or are planning to. All you need to do is mention random things about this guy or that guy. In most cases, chose to mention guys he doesn’t even know. Be nastier and create imaginary guys talking a few things about them. Of course, you won’t be saying about how good they are in bed!
Mention how these guys have some amazing character. Probably, a simple lame but very powerful statement, ‘A nice guy gave me a ride yesterday from the bar.’ In most cases, your man might feel mad about it wondering why other guys have to be nice or why you see them nice. He might want to be closer than you may notice him ad acknowledge him too.
#3- Keep Details About Your Actions to Yourself
When texting with your man, it is usually advisable to always keep him guessing. Stop acting like that saint who will pour out everything about her doings directly to him. You might think it’s cool, but in the real sense, being too much of an open makes you look like a dummy and possibly will even make him cheat on you. After all, he knows you love him deeply- that’s a sign girl!
Hence, purpose to hide details about your actions. Like say, you’re going out with your girls for some shopping. Just say that you’ll be going out and possibly have your phone mute or on flight mode till you return. He might be under some much pressure thinking it might be a date with a hot guy you probably stumbled over at the mall. Keep him guessing and battling with his super imaginative mind!
#4- Share Happy Memories You Spent with Other Guy Friends
One of the things that most men will hate hearing is their woman enjoying time with other guys. Well, we all have opposite-sex friends and it can always be a good time meeting them, sharing nice stories, or taking brunch over some lunch break. However, we all preserve this in our minds fearing what it all might translate to when our partners know of it.
Figure out a guy that your man knows is your friend. Make sure he is a great guy enough to make your man shiver when he hears him. Maybe he is handsome, has a supercar, has the best taste for clothes, or has more money than you man. Note that you are not comparing your man with this guy but just finding a man with who if you mention that you had some good moments, you man will get his heart racing! Do that and you can rest assured that he will get jealous, exhibiting the value you hold in his life. If he is scared to lose you, you might find him trying to be extra sweet just to keep you.
#5- Flirt with Him (But not much)
Flirting is a great way to keep your man quite interested, eyes on you, and to remind him that you’re always ready to play that game time and again with him. Here you might need to give him what’s just enough for him to think about you. You don’t wish to flirt excess an action that might make him feel like you’re a hoe or make it monotonous that he gets no emotions to rise with your flirts.
Purpose to get nasty for a bit then switch it off. Probably mention to him how horny you are and don’t know who to handle that now he is far away then say it will get better anyway. This alone is enough to have him even take a late-night drive to your place jealous that you might find a man to fix your sexual urges!
#6- Leave Abruptly in the Middle of a Great Conversation
Imagine having a great conversation with someone then all of a sudden he or she vanishes! How does it feel? What do you think about them? Well, the answers to this are dependent on how intimate and close you might be with that person. When having a nice chat with your man, probably flirting about how you miss him doing sweet things for you, vanish, and don’t dare come back till the next morning if it was at night.
While he might text multiple times or call you, refrain from responding. Things just get messier in his mind with every tick of the clock. He is already jealous wondering if another guy is right besides grinding hard on you! You might say sorry that you slept off or got in an emergency from work the next time you talk to him ensuring you make it up to him.
#7- Sound Busy
Men are possessive over what they love and treasure. You are one of the ‘things’ he treasures and he can do absolutely anything just to have you happy. However, lately, it has been quite hard to understand if he loves you or not. Well, here’s some remedy for that. Just assume imaginary tasks and a busy schedule.
Naturally, a man cannot take this direction. They will always wish to know how busy you are and what you are up to. Preempt this not and cancel that call with a response, ‘I will call you later.’ He might get jealous about your whereabouts, and what you might be doing without his presence. Seeing that you have other priorities other than him kills him. But it’s a great way to remind him to focus on you every single moment you share!
#8- Make It Sound like you are Going Out on a Date
It’s your grandfather’s birthday or your parent’s anniversary. Act nasty and tell the guy you are headed out. Well, don’t say what you are up to in detail but insinuate how fun you expect it will be out there. Choose words that might have him think it’s a date you’re headed to.
How about you tell him that you will talk tomorrow morning now that you need to dress up and do you make up for the next thirty minutes to look good. In his mind, he will wonder what you might be up to something that might make him jealous wishing to meet you the next morning.
#9- Send Him a Sexy Photo of You via Text
You are in your room at night and have tons of time to do some nice stuff for yourself. How about you make some great dinner for yourself, pour yourself some nice red wine, then wear your best lingerie. Well, it’s now time to take a sexy photo of you then send it to him via text.
While it wasn’t your plan to meet, your beloved boyfriend might get jealous wondering if there is a man who has all this ‘banquet’ prepared for him. Jealous he might be that he might pull over to your house just to be sure that you are alone. Funny but a nice way to have his ass jealous hence craving for you.
While jealousy is toxic, we can always flip it around to make it work in our favor. With the above tips, you can be sure of making your boyfriend jealous for some while arousing some craving feeling for you. However, you might need to execute these tricks diligently. Take your shot at the most optimal time and don’t overdo any of the tricks. He might know that you are just using reverse psychology on him and probably give a damn not something that might hurt you.