Taurus man is known to be among the most loyal and faithful Signs. They are the type to be fully committed and put their minds to one person. They may ghost a woman they feel is unsuitable for them or does not connect to them. However, if a Taurus man feels like he is not fulfilled somehow, he will find another person to fulfill the missing part. Let’s find out more about a married Taurus man who is in love with another woman below.
What does marriage mean to a Taurus man
Marriage is a haven for any Taurus guy. Nit just physical protection but also ego, values, and inner emotions protection. He will be the family’s foundation and want to protect what is his. Marriage is essential to him, and he considers it a necessary part of him. For a Taurus husband, his wife is a person he wants always to protect and support and to be someone he can lean on. He is a sensitive guy; hence he ensures that he chooses his significant other carefully. If a Taurus husband falls for another woman while in a marriage, he may be looking for something he feels he is not getting in his marriage.
Why a married Taurus might cheat
Like any other Sign, Taurus men can succumb to temptations. Surrendering to your temptations does not excuse any cheating behavior. Some of the reasons a Taurus man might cheat include;
• His ego needs constant reassurance
Taurus men are sensitive. If he does not feel the best while around you, he will try to find a way to make him think so. If he considers it another person, he will go for it. The little compliments are important to him, and if he receives them from another woman, he will cheat on you.
Trust is vital to a Taurus man. If he feels like he cannot trust you, he will distance the two of you, and the space will open a gap in your relationship. He will also want to find another person to fill the void. He will want to be someone that he can trust.
• They prefer feminine women
They like their women to be beautiful and a little bit submissive for them to protect you. They want their women to depend on them to protect them. If he feels like you do not rely on them for that, they will find another person that does.
Other reasons include;
- If he is emotionally checked out of the marriage
- His lustful desires get the best out of him
- He is unhappy
- He feels unfulfilled in the relationship
- He misses his single days
- He finds another woman that fulfills his desires.
• Signs that a Taurus man is cheating
Taurus men are known to wear their hearts on their sleeves. They do not hide what they are feeling and use their body language. You will know when something is up due to the changes in his behavior. Here are some signs that your Taurus husband is cheating on you.
• Change of passwords
Has he changed the passwords to all of his devices? Changing passwords is something that should arouse your suspicion. Taurus signs are loyal; hence they believe in the no-keeping secrets policy between him and his wife. If you previously had access to his devices and don’t, something is up.
• Unexplained spending
A Taurus man loves spending money on the people he cares about, like his family. He will spend his money on luxurious things without any regrets. Suppose he starts spending money without explaining where he is spending it. In that case, he may be spending on another person. It should raise a question.
• His appearance changes
Taurus men love looking good for their women. If you like his hair looking a certain way, he will style it the way you want it. Nevertheless, you might notice that his style has changed and your opinion doesn’t matter. This may be because he is trying to impress some other woman. He might also stop wearing things that you’ve bought him to prevent having feelings of guilt.
• He is treating you differently
Taurus men are very loving and supportive of their wives. He will come to you whenever he wants advice and a shoulder to lean on. Moreover, he will do anything to make sure you feel appreciated and loved. If he starts treating you differently, then something may be going on. If he no longer asks you for advice or talks to you about important things, he might be doing so with another person.
• He deflects any suspicions angrily
Taurus men do not like confrontations and will avoid them at all costs. He does not like his temper getting the best out of him. When he responds with anger when you ask him anything, say about his whereabouts on the previous night, those may be red flags. It is a sign that something may be going on with him, or he might be cheating.
• He seems withdrawn
Taurus men are not the chattiest people, but if you cannot even get him out of his shell, something is wrong. He might have a guilty conscience and may be afraid to face you. He might also be considering which action to take; leave his wife for his lover or break up with his lover.
• His needs have changed
Taurus men love attention, physical touch, and being shown affection by their significant others. He will come to you when he requires his needs fulfilled. If he no longer comes to you when he wants his needs fulfilled, someone else might be doing it for him. Pay attention to the sexual needs mostly. If he wants little to no satisfaction, something is wrong.
• He changes his schedule
Taurus men always have a schedule that they strictly follow. They enjoy a disciplined life. If he starts doing things at odd hours, like going for a run late in the night, he may be meeting someone else. They do not just change their schedule for something unimportant to them. Observe him and see whether there is a change in his schedule.
What to do when you find out your Taurus man is cheating
When you find out your Taurus man is cheating on you, you are filled with emotions such as anger, pain, and frustration. The pain and betrayal may be overwhelming, which should not make you freeze. You should find a way to deal with the ordeal. Taurus men do not love confrontations, so it would be advisable that you approach him well. You may take some space to sort through your emotions and talk about them later. Here are some things you should do when you find out your spouse is cheating.
• Find support
You do not want to deal with emotional stuff alone. You can spend the weekend with a friend or a family member and cry your heart out. It is good to find someone that will help you put yourself back together. You can also decide to visit a couple’s counselor to see if the relationship can still work out.
• Take some space
When you find out your husband is cheating on you, many emotions keep spiraling through your mind. It is okay to walk away if you feel emotionally drained and collect yourself. The hurt and the pain may make you do or say something that you might regret. It would be nice for you to take some space and talk to your spouse when you are already calm.
• Get the kids out of the house
If you have kids, it would be best to keep them out of all the drama and the chaos. Take the kids to stay with a friend or relative for a few days. The affair also affects the kids, and it is not suitable for them to be caught in the crossfire.
• Keep up with your self self-care
Getting cheated on does not have to affect your self-care routine. Keep eating healthy food, connect with friends, go to the gym, or go to yoga classes. You can also engage yourselves in some hobbies to keep your mind off things.
• Talk to him
It is suitable for you to talk to your husband and listen to his side of the story. You would also like to know why he cheated and if anything can be done. A therapist can help you know if something is wrong in the marriage and possible solutions. Finding out why he had an affair may help you discover what he was missing in the relationship.
Marriage is not easy. There are always ups and downs that every couple goes through. It might be a painful ordeal if you find out that your Taurus husband is in love with another. You may want to look for the best possible solution for yourselves. Taurus men are very loyal; hence it might be good to try and figure out where the problem is. There will be plenty of red flags that you will notice if you observe. Cheating is inexcusable, but it is better to try and solve the problem than to quit without trying