Is my Taurus man leading me on? It is not easy to know if a Taurus man is leading you on due to various reasons. One Taurus men are a smooth talker, and it would be so easy to fall for them as they understand their way with women. Another reason is that women have a hard time identifying what is real and not when in love.
Yes, they have a sixth sense to help them figure out things that are not right, but sometimes, as they say, love is blind. If you are having a hard time figuring out if a Taurus man is leading you or if he is in the relationship for the long run, this article will help. A Taurus man can be leading you on, and we will give tips on how to know a Taurus man is leading you on.
One thing about Taurus men is that if they love and want you, they will not tell you only but rather show you. He is very steady regarding what he wants, and we will make sure he gets the woman he wants. This includes; checking in on you religiously and always initiating dates and meetings, among others. But, this will change if he is not into you but wants to keep you as his second option. Some of the signs to look out for to know a Taurus man is leading you is how he communicates with you.
When you are together, he is good to you, but he can even ghost you after that. When you invite him on a date, he may cancel at the last minute with many excuses. He can go for months without talking to you and only emerge later, probably when he notices you are not paying much attention. When you ask him where he stands with you in the relationship, his answers will not be forthcoming. All these shows he is not that into you but wants to string you along until he finds someone to settle with.
They are physically distant.
Taurus men have physical touch as their love language. When he wants or loves you, he will be attentive to you by physically showing you. It may not be inappropriate touch, but some of the things he does to show love are probably rubbing your hands and touching your face and hair when you are having conversations. He may be comfortable holding your hand when walking in public and is always willing to occasionally give you forehead kisses and hugs in between your talks. However, one way to know a Taurus man is distant, or he is there but not entirely there with you, is if he is not interested in being close to you. This is expressed by sitting far from you while having a conversation.
Keep in mind that a Taurus man can still sleep with you but still not be interested in something long-lasting. I mean, most men do this, but it is different if a woman thinks or feels there is something special with the man. He will get intimate with you but out in selfish ways, and this is why they ignore your physical needs. He is only getting close to you to satisfy himself and does not care about you.
He only remembers you when he wants sex.
Yes, the sex may be good, and he may treat you like a queen when you meet for the hookups, but you need to listen and monitor how he talks and treats you the other times that you are not getting intimate. Does he text or randomly call to check on you? Does he invite you on random dates and join you when you do the activities you love doing in your free time? Well, always know and understand that a man who loves and wants to be with you will not be driven by sex alone. He will try to connect with you in other ways, but if your connection revolves around alcohol and sex, then know that man is leading you on.
You know nothing about his personal life.
Taurus men can get vulnerable and know how to express themselves when they are in a comfortable space with their women. He is not afraid to share his personal life with you, whether good or bad. They call to update you on what goes on in their lives and are willing to listen to your input (in case they need your opinion on something). However, if he avoids tough conversations and does not address anything to do with a serious relationship with you, then that is a clear indication that he is not with you for the long run.
The other thing is how he interacts with you. If he does not listen to you when you are vulnerable and his conversations surface, that Taurus man isn’t interested in you. If you have never met his friends or close family members, and every time you bring it up, he blushes it off by introducing new conversations but still tells you that he wants to be with you, then understand that man is leading you on.
He over criticizes you.
Taurus men are very articulate with how they relay their criticism. I mean, criticism is part of the relationship as your partner will always call you out when you do things that are not pleasing, something Taurus men are keen on. They understand that you making mistakes in the relationship is part of getting to know you. However, if you realize that nothing you do is pleasing to that man, he is not that into you and will find anything wrong to keep you away, even if it is for a short while.
He is not jealous of you.
Taurus is earthy people, and they have a bulla sign. They are rooted in what they want, believe in, and are ready to fight for what or who they want. Not necessarily physical fight, but will always protect what they believe healthily is theirs. So, this is a man who will always be jealous seeing his woman getting very flirty or friendly with other men. He will always want to know your male friends, and if a man calls, he will always be interested to know who called you and what he was saying.
Very typical for everybody who is in love! But a Taurus who is just there for happy moments would encourage such behavior. He wants you around maybe for merry moments like going to drink and wild sex, but he believes you are not for keeping. So if he sees other men showing you interest, that would not bother him as long as he gets to string you along for his benefits. For example, if you tell him that you are going on a date, he wouldn’t even flinch and maybe ask you to have fun and call him when you get back home.
He is not romantic
Taurus men are naturally very romantic when in love. They will take you on dates, make you feel special by cooking for you or something, buying you gifts, and anything you could think of that makes a woman happy and feels loved. So if you are with a Taurus man who does not show any romantic sign, then know he is not that into you. Yes, he notices you and wants to keep you close, but he knows deep down you are not his priority or the right woman for him; hence, the reason he treats you like an ordinary woman.
He is dating others
Another sign that Taurus man is just stringing you along for fun and probably keeping you as his last option if he is dating other people. He is still looking for the right one as he feels you are not the right woman for him, but still, he wants to enjoy the benefits that come from you may be hookups. He is a man willing to take another woman on a particular date in a beautiful restaurant, but when he wants to see you, he only invites you to his house or asks you if he could come to your house.
This may confuse a lot of women as they may view it that the man wants to have an intimate connection with you, but it is not. He wants to keep you in the back seat while riding with the one. In this case, he is still navigating the dating world to find his woman, and once he finds her, he will cut you off entirely.
You are not in his plans.
If you are dating a man and you feel your relationship is serious, if you ask him what his goal is for five years to come, he will put you in his goals. He could tell you he hopes to have married you and have a beautiful family together. But if he says that he hopes to find the right woman to settle with or gives other goals that you feel do not connect with you and yet you are together, well, “sis,” run for your life. That man is stringing you along and does not see any future with you.
These are the signs that you need to look out for when you date a Taurus man, and they will help you conclude if he loves and wants to be with you or if he is leading you on as he finds the perfect woman for him. It would help if you listened to how he talks to you, communicates, shows affection, and treats you privately and publicly.