With breakups knocking more frequently than never in relationships, there is a need to be quite sure that the man you have truly loves you. For others, there is a need to have some green light from the man to fully commit to the relationship despite being in the dating phase. A direct approach towards seeking to know if a man loves you might offer you false responses at times. After all, your boyfriend might only give you an affirmative response just to keep you by his side yet he is not serious. Nevertheless, there are tons of ways through which you can tell if a man truly loves you. Here how you will get to know if he loves you without asking him.
#1- He Pursues You till Date
Better described as hunters, men are known to pursue whatever thing they love including wealth, joy, and of course, women! Even after gaining you by his side as a girlfriend, a man will still pursue you to still communicate his love and stamp his dominance over what he claims to be his.
Endless romance is all about renewing the vibe by seeking to please each other while rejuvenating the love. A man who loves you will from time to time treat you as if he still trying to woo you to his life, showering you with tons of compliments and attention.
#2- He Pays Attention to Conversations
Don’t be afraid to show it all trying to cover up for what a woman is. Naturally, women crave attention and men know this better. Women will need attention even when they say nothing major and that’s what makes them feel better and loved.
Therefore if your man showers you not with attention while you are conversing, then think twice. Despite having a busy schedule, a man will always have time to chat with the woman she loves most. Be keen to observe his facial expressions and gestures while holding a conversation with him. Tons of complimentary facial expressions and the use of the right gestures show total commitment to the conversation, something that happens only for people you really like.
#3- He Calls or Texts You Randomly to Check on You
Care is paramount in a relationship and remains irreplaceable. Through care, love is best exhibited even without the need to utter a single word. One perfect way to know if he truly loves you is his care for you through random sweet calls or texts to check on you.
While he might have a busy schedule, there is no reason absolutely to miss calling a woman he loves so much. Therefore, if he goes from his daily routine and tasks to check on you, then that man probably loves you big.
#4- He Remembers Simple Things about You
Men have so long been on the bad books for not remembering important days including their spouses’ birthday and even their anniversary. Well, while there might be some science behind all these common traits to some men, a man who loves you will always keep in mind some details about you. After all, it all narrows down to the priorities that one has set in life.
If a man chooses to prioritize the love you share, he will remember some plain facts about you including some simple things you wouldn’t even pay attention to. He is your man that’s why he will have to save them up in his mind as a roadmap to the memories shared. Or probably, he has a good memory- just kidding!
#5- He Chooses You Company over Other Things or People
Ever heard the phrase ‘Go for a man who chooses you in a room filled with beauty rather than a man who comes to you when there is no one by his side’? Well, it explains it all! A man who chooses you amongst other ladies has proven to have some liking to you.
But in a relationship, things get even deeper. A man who chooses you over his friends or silly hobby that he’s not perfect in, might have proved to you that you are the most important thing in his life.
#6- He Goes Out of His Way for You
Rarely will a man get out of his way for a person he cares not about. In most cases, a man will always prioritize his business or work, at times his time alone over going out of his way for a person he treasures not.
Therefore, if your man stops what he is doing just to have time with you or take you out, you probably need to take him seriously. He might have only you in his heart to shower with love and affection.
#7- He Incorporates You in His Future Plans
After dating a man for quite some time, there is a need to know where the relationship is headed. No one wishes to have been in a relationship where sex was the only major goal that kept you moving and fighting for another day in the relationship. The perfect way to spell out true love in such a situation if you still wish to stay woke and alert of your relationship status is if he plans his future with you.
Let it not surprise you that a man will never commit you to his future plans if you are not the love of his life. Men are known to be quite paranoid about beginning some life with a woman out there owing to the pressure that might come to them being the head of the family. Therefore, a man who plans for his life with you at the center of the plan as his better half loves you big.
#8- He Compliments You Often
Despite living together in that house and probably wearing the same set of clothes after a while, a man who loves you never tires of complimenting you on how beautiful you look. He understands the true value of compliments that why he goes all the way to compliment your look even with that funny face after arising from the bed. However, you might need to check this quite closely.
Sometimes compliments are given just as a routine before stepping out of the house or any time you wear anything. A man who loves you will not only compliment you but go the extra mile to suggest some nice outfit or even be your makeup artist for a day. That’s true love and a true picture of love in who you are. He wants his trophy shining that why he will go all the way to do this just for you.
#9- His Friends and Family Know About You
Can you tell who his best friend is? Which of his close family members do you? Now, do they know about you being his girlfriend? Well is the answer to the latter is not affirmative, then you’re wasting your precious time trying to love or please a man who has you not in his heart. Can’t be explained any better!
#10- He Gets a Little Jealous
Men are too macho to admit that they are jealous of their women. So, if you spot some jealousy in your man while he sees you interact with other people or jealous about your new outfit, build no argument against him. Understand that it all comes from love with the best way to handle this is to offer reassurance to the man.
#11- He Wishes to Know Your Future Plans
Planning is part of a successful relationship. It takes a man who loves you to have his focus on understanding your plans. By this, a man wishes to know where he can supplement some help to raise you to your next level.
However, watch out for men who get to know your life plan trying to modify it like it’s their own. A man who loves you appreciates your goals as they are and will help you achieve them no matter what. Otherwise, settle not for the latter since that’s not love but an obsession.
#12- He Shows Up at Your Times of Need
There is no better way to know that a person has your interest at his heart than at times of need. Either it’s emotional needs, or financial needs, a man who loves you will do anything at his disposal to help you through your times of need.
Watch out however if you are not dating for men who offer help just to lure you to the trap of loving them in return. In such a case, a man who offers genuine help demanding no favor despite his feelings known to you is the man who loves you.
#13- He Confesses of His Love to You Time to Time
You might not have expected this point but it still makes sense. While many people will utter words of love to you without comprehending the depth they hold or without meaning them, some men express their love by confessing it. Don’t turn a deaf ear to them!
Listen to a man’s confession about your love. However, watch out for actions that complement his words to be sure of what he says.
While the above signs might depict a man in love with you, there is a need to stay proof of fake love. Men who wish not to commit have learned the art of faking love so that they can lure you into their emotional space just to devour the love you have to offer out of you in this perspective, get into your pants. Therefore, be keen to avoid such men from taking advantage of your love. With seventy percent of the above signs exhibited by a man you date, you can be sure he loves you deeply.