While some might see it weird, crushing so hard on a married man is quite normal – after all, love and desire know no limits. Unlike these young single gentlemen out there who want you today and wish to have your friend tomorrow, married men have proven to offer some level of commitment. You might also wish for some grownup and genuine dating where each one knows exactly what they want from the relationship. Well, it is easy said and visualized but harder to actualize owing to the societal norms and tough ‘moral standards’. Nevertheless, it might make you feel like an ‘Outlier’ landing yourself a handsome married man. Here are some tips on how to make a married man fall madly in love with you.
#1- Give Him Attention
After people marry, it is quite funny that they may not offer each other the desired levels of attention. Calissa May, a therapist and marriage counselor says that attention after marriage might shift involuntarily to other matters like seeking financial stability, and taking care of the kids. In most cases, women are the most affected having them assume their nurturing and motherly tasks after their nine to five schedule.
Capitalize on this and you might edge out the man’s woman in gifting him the much-needed attention. Focus on the man and his needs any time you are with him and within no time, he might be crawling back to your door at night wishing to spend a night with you not once but often as much as you are ready!
#2- Reward Him Crazily in Bed
What many won’t tell you is that people will often go behind their partners in marriage and get some thrill out of a handsome guy or beautiful woman they met. Yet another tackle on the married women (hope they read this not), you can capitalize on your sex game to try to win the man. Rewarding the man crazily in bed will most likely have the man chase you endlessly for the thrill of the sex escapade.
Be a boring woman in bed and be sure to lose that man for life. In fact, he might avoid even meeting you up despite projects you might have shared together. Hence don’t be like the lazy wife who might even keep him off the cookie jar and gift him crazy in the best way possible! Add some touch of nasty and crazy for the sweet blasphemy and be sure to have the man fall in love with you madly.
#3- Acknowledge and Appreciate Him
Making a married man fall in love with you is like solving all his needs and fulfilling his desires. In marriage life gets dull, and people can forget the power of appreciating each other. You might not blame the woman for failing to give the man the much-needed ego boost by showering the man with an appreciation for him and his actions. Routine gets in the way and acknowledging him might not be a priority unless it’s made one.
Fulfill this by appreciating every little thing that the man does. A task successfully completed lunch he bought you, or every single achievement-acknowledge and appreciate him big. You might want to add some compliment to his wears and new cologne just to make him know you notice him.
#4- Look Sexier than Her Boring Wife
Men are visual beings and will always wish to turn their eyes towards some sexy woman. His wife might not do this at times having her relax now that she has the man in her life. Take advantage of this and keep your sexy on every time you meet the man. A wink while on your sexy looks when he compliments you might work miracles making him desire for more of you.
A nasty way to have this work is to make the man your number one go-to person who you can ask on how you look from time to time. Make sure you send him a sexy pic of you asking him how you look for the planned coffee meet-up. You might have turned a coffee meet-up to date for lovers in the hotel room making him fall for you!
#5- Offer Him Psychological and Emotional Support
According to Thomas Martinez, a therapist tons of married men out there are suffering from a lack of psychological and emotional support. He continues to state that these are needs that are only met by the people a man would term to be close or intimate with. With men guided by their tough ego and masculinity, they will rarely admit to the need for psychological and emotional support from their male friends at times. Hence, this leaves them with the option of sharing the aforementioned with their spouses.
With their spouses often distant emotionally due to pressure emanating from a busy schedule both at work and home, you can take advantage of the situation to offer this to such a man. Notably, the moment you become that go-to person for a man’s psychological and emotional needs, it takes no time to have him develop feelings for him. Ensure you don’t do this like a friend, rather assume the true nurturing and caring nature of a woman who loves the man and within no time, he might fall for you!
#6- Get Flirty with Him Often
We all know the power of flirting for men. Don’t be surprised to know that some of the relationships that you see out there started out of a single flirty phrase. We all have some affinity towards flirty conversations and only avoid the deep ends of the sexual twist by choice.
Hence try your luck with getting flirty with the man and you might have him juiced up and vulnerable to your irresistible portion of love. Couple flirting with physical contact when talking with the man and he might blow up in ecstasy if he likes you. Don’t be in shock if he plants a kiss on your lips!
#7- Make Every Shared Moment Fun and Enjoyable
Facts be told! A man would rarely seek to have time out there if his home was quite fun especially being married. If he wishes to spend time with you then it means he misses something in his home. Hence, capitalize on this gifting the man with what he misses at his house. Note that no matter how good his marriage might be, the routine gets boring, and sharing some fun moments with you out there may offer him the thrill he dreams of daily.
Therefore, take some time out of your busy schedule to meet the man up ensuring that you have optimal fun together. You might play video games something he misses to do but can’t with his busy woman at home. As well you can accompany him to the bar for some shots before getting home ensuring to maintain some sense of humor in the whole encounter.
#8- Have Him Be the King He Should Be
It is human nature to rewards good deeds and true to the word, he might reward you for making him feel like the king he should be. Worry not about investing in the man in terms of time and fair treats. The whole idea of making him feel like the king he should be is giving him space to exude total masculinity coercing him not when he is wrong just to have him a peaceful time around you.
Call him sweet names like darling and sweetheart. Make calls or write texts randomly asking to know if he is okay. Ask about how his day was like giving him a listening ear all through the talk with fun responses. You might just have snatched him away from his woman back at home.
#9- Be Open to Love from Him
You want this married so judge not his moves! Be open to love from him and exhibit no panic over how things will turn out. Being too overprotective over what might happen in the future will only bring sanity to this man making him remember he has a woman back at home.
Walk with the vibe and be open to his moves. With time the man will have his emotions and feelings attached to you that he might even wish to leave his woman for you!
#10- Be Patient with Him
A man with a woman back at home deserves some fair treatment when you wish that he makes important decisions about the two of you. Add zero pressure to him about what you wish to happen to allow nature to take its course. He might not take your advances quite imminently but with time he will consider you especially when seeing how calm you take the whole interaction.
At this time, focus on building you since men wish to have women who are independent. At the end of the day, the man might love how you present yourself to him making him desire to pursue the deeper you hence ending up in your trap.
Either you want him for a long term or just some while, the above tips will help you lure a married man into your life. The number one mistake some ladies do is trying to taint the man’s image to the husband. Care not about the wife and focus on giving the man a time of his lifetime! Make him the king he should be and the monster in bed and you probably have him under your control.